Every woman has her own list of insecurities. Maybe it’s scars, a round belly, crow’s feet, a bony frame, a big butt, or a double chin. Maybe you worry about the number on the scale or what size clothes you wear. I get it. It’s not always easy looking in the mirror and feeling like a rock star. Why am I a cheerleader for confidence? Because I still have to tell MYSELF that my body is worthy, too. After pregnancy, my body changed … and it totally took me by surprise. Not only was I hard on myself, but I was in a relationship at the time where the other person thought it was ok to cut me down because of my size. I absorbed a lot of negative messages about my body while I was struggling with my new identity as a mom. I am still on my own self-confidence journey. But my daughter is in high school and I am fierce about showing her and every woman that I meet that perfectionism is bullshit. That “perfect” person you see on social media? It’s only because they’re trying really hard to make it LOOK that way. But it’s really easy to start comparing ourselves to something that’s not even real. When I photograph a boudoir session, I honestly don’t see the “flaws” you see. When it’s time to pick your favorite photos, I want you to see how smoking hot you are!!  No matter your size or shape, I will pose you in a way that brings out your best side. You deserve to have photos that make you feel like you can conquer the world!